I’m a planner, and my friend does everything last minute. She’ll call on a Saturday afternoon to go to the movie in a few hours, or if she’s going to get back to me about going out, it’s often right before the event we’re going to. It tics me off – I’m a planner. I’ll ask her to the movies a week ahead of time, but wont’ hear back till last minute. I want to keep her as a friend, but don’t know how to connect without getting irritated. How should I handle this?